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In
this episode of the Warrior Mind Podcast I’m going to be talking about how our
beliefs can affect our actions and create self-fulfilling prophecies.
Beliefs, Performance and Self-fulfilling Prophecies
A
self-fulfilling prophecy is a prediction that causes itself to be true due to
the behavior (including the act of predicting it) of the believer.
Self-fulling, here, means “brought about as a result of being foretold or
talked about,” while prophecy refers to the prediction.
There is a direct correlation between human behavior and the
beliefs held by individuals such that human experiences confirm our suspicions
about them. These are self-fulfilling prophecies that have considerable
influence on social capability. They make individuals believe what they see and
their perception and interpretation as valid. Based on what you believe, there
can either be positive growth or depreciation of your performance capacity.
Individuals holding retrogressive beliefs fail to do their best as they are not
usually well informed. Some of the worst assumptions that harm individual
performance as well as hint on how to work your way out of the maze follow in
the succeeding paragraphs.
1. What are your perceptions of good
and evil in people, events, and days?
Getting messy with your wife as you get ready for work could make
you believe that the day may not augur well for you. What if, for so long,
someone embodied your role model and then at some point you realize you can no
longer believe anything about them? How do you take your everyday little
failures? Do you give up and think you can never be better just because you did
not seem to perform better on a particular day? Unfortunately, these beliefs
turn into self-fulfilling prophecies in the long run. Generally, there is so
much evidence out there that gives credence to what we believe about other
people and life circumstances every day.
If you are experiencing bad times and nothing seems to work out
for you, then it may be tough for you to get through the day. Your lousy
perception of the role model you no longer trust may hinder you from learning
something valuable from them. Human capability is related to beliefs we hold
about the performance of particular tasks. After all, we tend to think that
it’s not very worthy of losing time trying. However, the detrimental effects
beliefs have on your performance are not inherent and could be altered.
Identifying and combating them helps in managing your performance in a positive
sense. Prove your beliefs wrong by fighting them head-on.
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 2. How do you perceive what you have
and what you don’t have?
Human perception of what they are capable of and what they are not capable of as a product of their genome deters the prospects of mastering and improving their performance. People always tend to think that some people are naturally born with particular talents that enable them to perform excellently. On the contrary, it could be true that you are not born with the ability, but with hard work and determination, the best performance is also achievable. The bad thing is that not unless you start believing that it’s possible, born with or without the talent, you become discouraged from all efforts of making things better. So you think you would rather not lose the time, and the self-fulfilling prophecy becomes true. Countering the negative aspect of this belief involves gaining more focus on working hard as well as checking on specific behaviors. Small achievable goals are essential to monitoring the growth you wish to realize.
3. Allow fate to take control of your
destiny
Letting fate judge the outcome of your life events and
circumstances is a strategy most people choose over trying to make things
happen. The lack of control could be devastating due to the inability to alter
performance and make a change. Beliefs not subjected to reason such as
believing in fate deters one from gaining full control over what happens in
one’s life, making them think there is not much they can do to change the
situation. This could prevent you from unleashing your full potential. It is
important to note that how well you display your abilities can influence
whether you succeed or not.
Bottom line
Developing a particular belief about other people, events, and the
days of your life usually takes a long time. Over the years, what is seen, and
the outcomes of particular activities engrave a specific belief in the human
mind. They become like conditioned reflexes upon our thought process. They take
the same long time to get rid of and demand much effort to succeed in
overcoming them, and realizing when such beliefs take effect and their impact
on your performance is critical to overcoming them. Find out the missing
ingredients in developing your full potential. Friends with a better perception
of life, who depend more on reason rather than mere beliefs may be quite
helpful in challenging your beliefs positively.
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