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Today I discuss why men binge eat (as opposed to women), as well as the distinct solutions that I have seen work with my male clients. Quote Of The Week …comes from Marc David, founder of the whole eating psychology movement. Main section Men eat compulsively too. This under-reported issue affects more males than you would believe, so I thought it was time to devote an episode to the problem. I discuss the three distinct ways that men differ from women when it comes to food compulsion, and three approaches that I have found work well with them. Please note that this episode necessarily involves a certain amount of generalising. Male-specific Issues #1 Isolation – although the women I coach feel that many people do not understand them, in my experience there is much less group support for men, even on the level of talking amongst friends. #2 Career – men generally link work to their sense of self more than do women. Find out exactly how, whether you are an ambitious over-achiever, or the opposite. #3 Sexuality – both men and women use food to (mis) manage sexuality issues – but very differently. In the second half, I discuss 3 approaches that I have found to be really effective. You’ll have to listen to discover exactly what they are, but you will find out: *Why labelling junk food or any other addictive pastime or substance with the label ‘bad’ will backfire on you and make change harder *The importance of having a role model – and the vital distinction that will lead to long-term success vs falling off the wagon a few weeks in *The story of the New York food cart, and how imperfectionism allowed one client to overshoot his goal *And much more! Resources Find out more about coaching at http://www.theshiftinside.com/coaching/ The Patton Oswalt comedy clip is at https://youtu.be/FUJLdbX_Uek Episode 26: http://www.theshiftinside.com/audio-real-vs-fake-pleasure/ Intermittent Fasting episode: http://eatingcoach.libsyn.com/ec-70-my-intermittent-fasting-experiment Free Hidden Sugar Checklist is at http://www.theshiftinside.com/hidden/ Join the private Eating Coach Discussion Group at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1594950873896541/ Ask a question at: http://www.theshiftinside.com/podcast/ Get your free audiobook at: http://www.audibletrial.com/EatingCoach Sound effects by https://www.zapsplat.com |