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I just had to share this message with you today. You don't have to be perfect to get what you want in life. Two days ago, I got an email from a lady who said, "Look, I really don't want to follow your material anymore. I can't stand your spelling and your grammar." I was like, "Ooh okay." She does not know that I have battled from a very young age with my English and my grammar. When we were kids growing up, my parents always said “my younger sister was the smart one and I was the practical one”. I took that on as my truth....that I was not good at academic things and I was going to struggle through life. When I worked with horses I believe, because my grammar was not strong that I was no good and didn't have the right stuff to do an administrative role. I could only work outdoors with animals. I had a client once who was told her boobs where too small by a guy when she was in her early twenties. She took that message as, "I'm not attractive to men." For this reason she struggled with men for years. Once we go to the root of the problem. My client let go of this non-serving belief and found love. I know when you're listening to this video there's something you're thinking about yourself right now that makes you feel you're not perfect is some way. Not good enough to have a guy who's going to treat you well, make you feel good, that's really attracted to you, you're really attracted to him and you're excited about. I can tell you, if you don't fully love yourself, if you don't think you have the right clothes, if you think you're not the correct weight, you'll find it impossible to get what you want. I want you to let it go because I can tell you, sitting here right now, seeing the results that people I work with get, seeing the results in my life, that this belief is not serving you. I'm in a loving relationship; I'm writing blogs for a company called YourTango. They're a big company, syndicating my blogs to other big companies, and if I let this one woman who said, "Oh, I'm not going to follow your stuff anymore because you have bad grammar.", then I've made a big mistake. She does not know the battle I had internally to get to where I am today, and you have the same message for you. If somebody in your life makes you feel less than what I want you to do today is forget about that and do what you need to do anyway and go get that great guy. Because you don’t have to be perfect to find love, you just need to get going. Can't talk to guys? Then download your Free copy of 15 Fun & Flirty Conversation Starters That Get The Hot Guy To Notice You here. |