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Why Don't Men Approach Me? - Bonus Episode 06
Category: Health
Duration: 00:05:59
Publish Date: 2016-07-24 00:00:00
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I'm going to give you 3 reasons why men don't approach you.

Men need to feel like they have a chance with you

First of all, men need to feel like they have a chance with you in the first place. A genuine guy is going to be nervous walking over to an attractive woman and talking to her.  If you can make his approach to chat with you comfortable and put him at ease you are going to get more men wanting to approach you.

Men need to feel they have a chance with you. If you are out with a group of six of your friend’s then walk up to the bar on your own and order the drinks that give the guy an opportunity to go talk with you. It's very intimidating to walk over to a bunch of six gorgeous women and talk to the girl you like! You must create opportunities or allow a guy a space, invitation to be in your company.

Are you easy to talk to?

The second thing you need to think about is are you approachable?  Think about this. Are you open, smiling, welcoming and easy to talk too? That's it.

A lot of women will come to me and say, "I can talk to the guy I don't like, but I can't talk to the guy I like. Why is that?" If you think about it, that's a mindset thing that's going on in your head.

You can talk to a man in his eighties. He can give you a compliment and that doesn't faze you because you know, you are not attracted to him and you can talk to a five year old. Then you can talk to a guy your own age. The only difference is, you find him attractive and you are getting self-conscious & that is where the switch most changes in your head. Learn how to get out of your head, shut off the self-talk that is not supporting you.

All you need to do is think practice

He is just another human being, genuinely go over there and get to know him or when he comes to approach you, be open, just chat, just open your mouth, find out what he loves, find out what lights him up inside, as if you are having conversations with people in general, like this is normal for you and the way you are with everybody. That's how you'll get approached more by men.

Feminine energy is your best friend

Think about your energy, what you're giving off and is that allowing men to come over and chat with you? Feminine Energy is your best friend. A lot of women think feminine energy is weakness, so let's hit that on the head right now. Feminine energy is your power. Feminine energy is being open, receptive, fun, playful, attentive, and curious. Embrace these qualities. The only person who can give feminine energy is a woman and it is our strength, so embrace it. Men are attracted to feminine energy, the very essence of being a woman so embrace it. Lead with it and watch the men approach you one by one.

Remember men will not approach you unless you give them a chance, be open and friendly. You find out who they are and what they love about life. Thirdly embrace feminine energy.

If you enjoyed this, leave your comments below. Let me know what your thoughts are, let me know what's working, what's not working for you. Love to hear it.
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