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Contrary to what most people will tell you, great relationships don’t just “happen naturally.” They require communication. Successful relationships, at any level, require more communication then let’s just go along with things and see how it all works out because the only product of letting a relationship happen “naturally” is no one clear, disappointment and heartbreak. Defining what your expectations are and knowing how to communicating them to your new potential partner is the only way they can be met. About Benjamin Ritter Benjamin Ritter is the Founder of "LIVE for yourself", a personal or professional transformational systematic process, author of The Essentials, co-host of the Suave Lover podcast, host of "A Dose of Advice" through Dose.com, Chicago panelist on The Great Love Debate, and a freelance expert and writer who has worked for TheGoodMenProject, ManTalks, Elite Daily and Examiner.com. He is interested in the role that personal alignment effects success, happiness and relationships, which is also the focus of his doctoral research at Pepperdine University. Show Highlights - Align your relationships to your expectations, have defined intentions and understand your values and your relationship is going to grow
- A lot of people don't know what they need from a relationship but they know what they get angry at
- Look at your previous relationships positives and negatives to know what you need & what you expect
- Do you need him to call you at night when he comes home, why? What is the core expectation behind that? Do you want to feel more secure?
- Know your needs, know your expectations and know how to communicate them
- Another word for expectation is boundaries
- Benjamin shares 3 easy words you can use to communicate your expectations to your partner
- If you are in a relationship that does not meet your expectation it is only you hurting yourself
Connect with Benjamin Listeners who like Benjamin facebook page https://www.facebook.com/ritterbenj and send him a message saying they heard me on the Magnet For Love podcast will get a complimentary phone consulting session to discuss setting and communicating their own expectations in their love life. Website: http://benjamin-ritter.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ritterbenj Twitter: https://twitter.com/benjaminritter Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ritterbenj/ |