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Lorna Poole- Can Friends With Benefits Turn Into A Committed Relationship?
Category: Health
Duration: 00:05:27
Publish Date: 2017-03-10 00:00:00
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Maybe you are still sleeping with your ex, you broke up, you thought it was over, then he reaches out and texts you, you agree to sleep with him for now. Or maybe you met a guy you liked, but he has told you "he just wants to have fun". 

Can a friends with benefit situation turn into a great relationship?

In short, the answer is “NO”, and here’s why?

Because you give him all the benefits without the need to step up

We sleep with men because we like them. At some point, when you were getting together with him you have implicitly agreed to have ‘fun’, and not enter into a committed relationship. He demonstrated to you that this was his intention either by his words or his actions, and by going along with him, you have agreed. Because you have already agreed the terms of your relationship to be a friend with benefits, then there is no motivation or incentive for him to step up and commit to a relationship you.

Men looking for benefits don’t want a relationship

When he showed you at the beginning that he wasn’t interested or fully committed, he did so by suggesting the friend with benefits arrangement in the first place. When any man tells you this it is because he’s not that into you or it is not the right time in his life and therefore he is not looking for a relationship right now.

Men are either into you or they’re not

When a man is into you, he will make it very clear that this is the case. If he’s not giving you those signs from the start, then he won’t change his mind, and every minute you spend with him is time wasted on someone who can’t give you what you need.

When you end up in the friends with benefits situation, then the best thing to do is call it what it is, and move on to look for what you really want. A boyfriend!

Lorna helps women let go of the wrong guy and attract the right guy In her Free Ebook she shares with you why you keep attracting the wrong men and what you can do about it. Grab your copy here...15 Biggest Mistakes That Keep You Attracting The Badboys. 
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