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Letter to My 13-Year-Old Self: Wisdom Fathers Men Wish They Knew w/ Dr. David Miller
Category: Kids & family
Duration: 00:50:48
Publish Date: 2026-03-22 12:00:00
Description:

This week on I Am Dad Podcast, host Kenneth Braswell welcomes scholar, author, and longtime advocate Dr. David Miller for a powerful conversation about mentorship, memory, and manhood.

At the center of this episode is Dr. Miller’s new national writing project, Letters to My 13-Year-Old Self, an intergenerational reflection inviting Black men across the country to write a message to the boy they once were. The letters explore wisdom, wounds, and wins—the lessons learned through decades of life experience.

The conversation digs deeper than nostalgia. Braswell and Miller explore why age 13 represents a critical turning point in the development of boys and young men. They reflect on the awkward transition from childhood to adolescence, peer pressure, masculinity, identity formation, and the deep emotional experiences that shape a young man’s future.

Throughout the episode, they examine:

  • Why age 13 is a pivotal moment in Black male development

  • The power of intergenerational mentorship between Black men

  • The importance of community affirmation for young boys

  • What today’s generation of boys face in a hyper-digital world

  • The lasting impact of childhood trauma and early experiences

  • Why older Black men must intentionally pass wisdom to younger generations

Dr. Miller also shares how letters submitted by men across the country—from young adults to elders in their eighties—reveal common themes of resilience, healing, identity, and self-worth.

The episode closes with a reflection on the importance of slowing down, turning off the phone, and rediscovering the beauty of youth before adulthood arrives too quickly.

This conversation is a reminder that every man carries the voice of the boy he once was—and that speaking to that younger self can help guide the next generation.
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