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Podcast: Humanize Me
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318: How to do a platonic coffee date
Category: Society & Culture
Duration: 00:52:25
Publish Date: 2018-07-19 13:08:34
Description: Bart answers a question from a listener called Erin, who called our ‘Q Line’ to ask how to start to make new connections with people: “How do I talk to people at the beginning of something new? Say I meet someone and I want to be friends with them or there’s someone I haven’t seen in a long time and they’ve come home for a visit or something, how do I make the next move? What are the steps to setting up a platonic date?” Bart took off running, saying that it’s one of his favorite questions to be asked and drawing from his own experiences with college students to give a pretty comprehensive primer on how to talk to people, connect, and get to the next level with them. Takeaways: Do it over food or drink; be clear about your intentions; as the initiator, take the lead; double down on curiosity and ask thoughtful questions; affirm people and be in a ‘giving’ mode; don’t be afraid to go deep; don’t be afraid of prep ahead of time and evaluation afterwards; be engaged as an active listener; communicate that you notice them. — Got your own question for Bart to answer in a future show? Call the ‘Q Line’ at (424) 291-2092. Enjoy the podcast? Support it at Patreon.com/HumanizeMe and get extra content for it! Review us on iTunes (it really helps). And join over 600 other listeners on the show’s Facebook Group. Humanize Me is hosted by Bart Campolo and is produced by Jux Media.
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