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142: The Way to Lead After a Workplace Loss

Category: Business
Duration: 00:42:02
Publish Date: 2014-05-28 22:38:11
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We ve talked a lot on this show about what to do in challenging situations. Today, what to do when the worst happens.

Andrew Stenhouse

Guest: Andrew Stenhouse, Ed.D.
Dean, School for Graduate and Professional Studies
Vanguard University of Southern California

Loss is pervasive and we don t often recognize how much we re dealing with loss at the time.

Three broad categories of emotions tend to show up for people during a time of workplace loss:

  • Fear
    • We don t know the loss will affect us personally
    • We don t know how we are going to react to the loss
    • These fears can surprise us and cause even more anxiety
  • Anger
    • We can be angry at the person who we lost
    • We need to be able to express our anger in some way
    • Anger sometimes feels good because it provides some illusion of control
  • Sadness
    • Anger tends to yield to sadness
    • Guilt is the feeling that we could or should have done something
    • We can sometimes feel guilt that we are not in as much pain as we think we should be

What leaders can do after a loss:

  • Don t put parameters on how people are supposed to deal with loss
  • However, provide stability and structure for people
  • Create and lead forums for conversation
  • The performance aspects of the job can help stabilize and reduce stress
  • Leaders should facilitate the conversation about the loss, rather than just allowing it (or hoping for it) to happen on its own
  • Bring in someone else to help when you see physical signs of loss

You re always on one side or the other of a loss. You re either approaching one or getting over one. -Andrew Stenhouse

What s one thing you could do now to ready your organization for loss?

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