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family scapegoating abuse part 1: the black sheep
Category: Health
Duration: 01:55:34
Publish Date: 2023-09-12 09:00:14
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Join me for part one of a 3-part series exploring the hidden complexities of the “scapegoat” or “black sheep” role within dysfunctional family dynamics. Family scapegoats start as innocent children or adolescents who bear the weight of projected family trauma. In this series, we’ll journey through the origins and consequences of scapegoating abuse, both in early childhood, as well as its lingering impact in adulthood. Together, we’ll explore how these experiences shape our emotional landscapes and relationships. By working with and integrating the concepts covered, you’ll discover valuable insights into breaking free from this suffocating role, allowing you to embark on a journey towards healing and liberation.

 

By the end of this series, it is my sincere hope that you can begin to unmask the layers of this covert form of psycho-emotional abuse, and learn to reclaim your narrative, rewriting a story of resilience and transformation beyond this dysfunctional label that was never yours to begin with.

 

TIME STAMPS

 

SCAPEGOATING SERIES PART 1

 

00:00 – 09:21: What are the roles in dysfunctional family systems?

09:21 – 16:47: Hester Prynne in The Scarlet Letter as a scapegoat archetype

16:47 – 21:36: How toxic families choose a child to scapegoat

21:36 – 26:35: My personal experience as a family scapegoat

26:35 – 32:55: Signs you might be the family scapegoat

32:55 – 38:28: The multigenerational aspects of family scapegoating abuse (FSA)

38:28 – 41:58: The abusive nature of family scapegoat abuse

41:58 – 44:36: Wounds caused by family scapegoat abuse

44:36 – 48:11: Why scapegoating abuse often goes unnoticed

48:11 – 54:30: The dehumanizing nature of family scapegoating abuse

54:30 – 01:05:21: The scapegoat child’s role in narcissistic family systems

01:05:21 – 01:11:16: The warped stories and narratives in toxic family systems

01:11:15 – 01:15:19: The physical, psychological and emotional effects of scapegoating

 

PREMIUM PORTION: GHOSTING

 

01:15:19 – 01:41:03: Listener voicemail from Austin + my personal reflections and experiences with ghosting in relationships

01:41:03 – 01:46:22: What the research says about ghosting

01:46:22 – 02:11:00: The “anti-ghosting” trend on TikTok and how to end relationships WITHOUT ghosting


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Disclaimer: information contained in this podcast episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment or consultation with a licensed mental health professional.

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