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	Podcast:		Best Film Ever
	Episode:		Episode 311 - Ruby Sparks
	Category:		TV & Film
	Duration:		03:25:48
	Publish Date:		2025-12-30 01:00:00
	Description:		“I wrote you.” Join Ian & Liam for our 312th episode as we step into the strange, tender, and quietly unsettling world of Ruby Sparks (2012) — a film about creativity, control, fantasy, and what happens when the person you imagine refuses to stay that way. Typewriters ready. Boundaries optional. This week we discuss: The central conceit — what happens when your idealised version of someone becomes real, and whether the film earns the right to ask that question. Paul Dano’s performance — wounded, awkward, gifted, and quietly terrifying. Is Calvin a romantic lead… or a cautionary tale? Zoe Kazan’s Ruby — luminous, frustrating, independent, and increasingly human. How does the film balance charm with agency? The ethics of authorship (first level) — when creativity crosses into control, and when love turns into manipulation. The ethics of authorship (second level)- What about the ethics of Zoe Kazan's screenplay and performance opposite her actual romantic partner in Paul Dano Our own Ruby Sparks asks whether the film understands its own power dynamics — or if it occasionally romanticises behaviour it should interrogate harder. The meta-text — a film written by its female lead about being written by a man. How much does that context change everything? We talk about fantasy vs. reality in relationships — and how dangerous it is to fall in love with someone who exists only on your terms. Is Calvin a hard lead to sympathise with on any level? Does his status as financially successful cause him to be less easy to support? There are… hypotheticals discussed — moments that feel uncomfortably specific, strangely timed, or oddly familiar, without ever being about anything in particular. Pure coincidence, obviously. We talk about whether this is strictly a male-female perspective or if it's something innately more comprehensively human than that The tonal shift — rom-com whimsy giving way to something much darker. Does the film stick the landing? The ending — hopeful, troubling, cyclical? What does the final image actually suggest? Ian presents what he thinks is the author's intent And finally, whether Ruby Sparks is the Best Film Ever — or one of the most quietly confronting relationship films of the 2010s. Become a Patron of this podcast and support the BFE at https://www.patreon.com/BFE We are extremely thankful to our following Patrons for their most generous support: Juleen from It Goes Down In The PM Hermes Auslander James DeGuzman Synthia Shai Bergerfroind Ariannah Who Loves BFE The Most Andy Dickson Chris Pedersen Duane Smith (Duane Smith!) Randal Silva Nate The Great Rev Bruce Cheezy (with a fish on a bike) Richard Ryan Kuketz Dirk Diggler Stew from the Stew World Order podcast NorfolkDomus John Humphrey's Right Foot Timmy Tim Tim Aashrey Paul Komoroski Buy some BFE merch at https://my-store-b4e4d4.creator-spring.com/. Massive thanks to Lex Van Den Berghe for the use of Mistake by Luckydog. Catch more from Lex's new band, The Maids of Honor, at https://soundcloud.com/themaidsofhonor Also, massive thanks to Moonlight Social for our age game theme song. You can catch more from them at https://www.moonlightsocialmusic.com/
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