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	Podcast:		Unschooling Mom2Mom
	Episode:		199 - Why Deschooling Is Really for Parents: Letting Go of Schoolish Thinking
	Category:		Kids & family
	Duration:		00:07:18
	Publish Date:		2026-01-13 17:00:00
	Description:		Text Sue what you think! Many parents expect deschooling to work like a big reset button — pull kids out of school, give it a little time, and everything will fall into place. But when kids seem to be “vegging out,” parents often panic: Is this really how it’s supposed to work? In this episode, I unpack what’s actually happening in those moments — and why that panic makes sense. Leaving school doesn’t automatically erase the habits we learned growing up. Even when unschooling feels right, school-shaped ideas about productivity, pace, comparison, and structure can quietly shape how we interpret learning at home. We’ll talk about: Why deschooling isn’t instant — and why that’s normal What kids are actually doing when it looks like “nothing” Why deschooling is active parent work, not passive waiting How connection, partnership, and shared life replace school-based frameworks Why successful deschooling doesn’t lead kids back to school thinking — it helps school fade into the background entirely Deschooling isn’t about rejecting learning. It’s about letting go of patterns that belonged to a system built for sameness — not real families. Read Transcript at the Blog https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/why-deschooling-is-really-for-parents ____________________________ DESCHOOLING TOOLKIT - for kids and parents! The practical support resource for parents who find themselves in that in-between space — where unschooling makes sense, but school-shaped thinking keeps creeping back in. The Deschooling Toolkit is a collection of parent supports designed to walk alongside you as you step away from system-focused ideas and sort through what actually supports your family’s learning now. It includes: 365 Days of Deschooling — gentle, real-life prompts for kids and families A Parent Deschooling Guide — to help you recognize school-conditioned habits and rethink them intentionally Deschooling Affirmation Cards — steady reminders for moments when doubt or outside pressure shows up There’s no schedule to follow and nothing to “complete.” You can return to it whenever old patterns surface. Support the show _____________________________________________________ As always, reach out if you need more help. *You don't have to do this alone!* Free Email List with weekly unschooling resources Like what you're hearing - buy Sue a cup of coffee! Buy Me a Coffee Creating Confidence Membership Group Podcast listeners can join without the sign up fee - so use this link! UNSCHOOLING 101 Course Math WITHOUT Curriculum Course Unschooling Transcript Course Seasonal Unschooling Guides Private 1:1 Coaching with Sue www.UnschoolingMom2Mom.com
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