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	Podcast:		Parenting After Trauma with Robyn Gobbel
	Episode:		EP 224: Is Behavior Change the Goal?
	Category:		Kids & family
	Duration:		00:34:52
	Publish Date:		2025-06-03 04:00:00
	Description:		When you're dealing with whining, hitting, defiance, back talk…well, of course you want it to stop. But what if behavior change isn’t actually the place to start? Not for long-term behavior change, at least. In this episode, I explore why behavior change does matter, but why it’s not the first goal, especially for kids with vulnerable nervous systems. HEADS UP! I’m not necessarily asking YOU- the one facing these out of control behaviors- to change your goal of behavior change. But…what if the people who are helping you could stay focused on that truth?! In this episode, you’ll learn: Why all behavior makes sense—even the baffling kind What happens when we shift from changing behavior to addressing the nervous system How holding two truths at once helps you feel more regulated, even in hard moments Resources mentioned in this podcast: All Behavior Makes Sense {EP 198} Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior {Ep 84} Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior - Webinar and eBook Read the full transcript at:RobynGobbel.com/BehaviorChange Join me for Presence in Practice- an experiential retreat style workshop for professionals into the neurobiology of how change happens. July 14-16 in Rockford, MI (just north of Grand Rapids) RobynGobbel.com/PresenceinPractice Save $50 if you register by June 20! ::: To read all the details and get on the waiting list for the 2026 cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program, head to RobynGobbel.com/immersion You must be on the waiting list to apply! ::: Grab a copy of my book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub Apply for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) robyngobbel.com/Immersion Follow Me On: Facebook Instagram Over on my website you can find: Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE) eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE) LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)
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