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Podcast: Better Sex
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324: [Soapbox] Think of sex like tapas

Category: Health
Duration: 00:07:07
Publish Date: 2025-09-18 14:54:03
Description:

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the importance of moving away from a goal-oriented, all-or-nothing approach to sex. She explains how this mindset can be a barrier for partners with "reactive" desire, and offers alternative metaphors like viewing sex as a playground or a tapas bar, where the focus is on enjoyment and exploration rather than completion. Jessa emphasizes that this shift can help reduce the pressure and improve intimacy within relationships.


00:00 Introduction to Better Sex

00:49 The All-or-Nothing Approach to Sex

03:36 Changing the Perspective: Metaphors for Better Intimacy

05:37 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

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