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In this solo episode of the Better Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the spotlight is on the two distinct types of sexual desire—proactive and reactive. Zimmerman explains how proactive desire involves thinking about sex and feeling aroused independently, while reactive desire requires specific conditions and stimuli to become aroused. She discusses the common misconceptions surrounding these types of desire, their impact on relationships, and offers strategies to accommodate and embrace reactive desire. By understanding and working with these concepts, couples can enhance intimacy and reduce desire discrepancies in their relationships.
00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast 00:58 Understanding the Two Types of Desire 02:03 Proactive Desire Explained 03:05 Reactive Desire Unveiled 05:01 Bridging the Desire Gap 06:24 Creating Space for Reactive Desire 07:58 Flexibility and Intimacy 11:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Want to learn more about my sponsored charity? Charity: Water is committed to providing clean water to every human on the planet, 100% of your contribution will be used directly for water projects around the globe. You can learn more at https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/water.
More info and resources:
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Special Collections of the podcast:
Increasing Desire Episodes Eroticism and Excitement Episodes My Favorite Authors
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