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Money and Marriage in our Home
Category: Kids & family
Duration: 00:48:10
Publish Date: 2015-11-03 15:02:16
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Sure, we all wonder about how money works in other homes.  Today, we open the curtain and share our struggle with money: the headaches & heartbreaks (that we can now laugh about); working through the fights; making a budget work; and finally, being able to see the finish line so close.

It is nearly an understatement to say that our marriage has completely changed from figuring out the finances.  

Raul & I examine: 

  • What we remember of the early days of our marriage trying to figure out our budget.  
  • The resentment I had at that time.
  • The turning point that was the biggest fight of our marriage: "the car fight" that changed our lives
  • How I went to the first session of Financial Peace University by myself...and why Raul insisted I go.
  • The discussion after that first session & insight to our desire to change our family tree.
  • Instill hope: The reason I created this blog & podcast.
  • Learning & getting on the same page, working together as a team; our marriage is better for it.
  • The brutality of working through that first budget.
  • Why Saturday mornings working through the budget is the best time of the week for us to make it work.
  • And why Saturday morning budget time has become a habit.
  • The Christmas budget:  why we had to categorize where the money was going.
  • Why we had to decide to allow our daughter to give this holiday.
  • How we have found a balance where Raul focuses on the details, and I keep us looking toward the big vision for our family.
  • What our friends & family have noticed about our situation.
  • How having a budget has allowed us to be much more open about money.  Who knew?
  • The best example is to do it.
  • When did Raul know we were on the right path?  That very first night of FPU.
  •  The moment I knew we were on the right path?  When we could do a budget in just a quick time.
  • The story of "The Little Engine that Could" comparison to our finances.
  • How the element of surprise has been removed from our budget.
  • The jar analogy:  the big rocks, the pebbles, the sand and the water.
  • Raul is more analytical.  I am more abstract and a feeler.  We discuss how our communication styles have changed to be able to connect and reach out so that we are speaking the same language.
  • What advice Raul has for you, the one who knows there is an important conversation that needs to happen to fix your finances.
  • How having the budget eliminates the "awkward stressful conversations" in the store deciding on a purchase.
  • What Raul's opinion on this podcast & what he has learned from this experience.
  • How Raul has helped me figure out how to work from home, including: setting up business hours;  finding balance in family and creating; and how we are making podcasting a part of our life- but not everything in our life.
  • Raul asks me a question that I've never considered before.
  • The element of finances in our marriage has enriched our entire relationships. 
  • Raul agrees to return with a status update on what we continue to learn about our finances.

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