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Ray Godbold is a palliative care nurse faced with terminal cancer – but he doesn’t want to die in palliative care.
Robyn and Ray Godbold — Photo: Andrew Denton
Ray knows what some doctors prefer not to admit. He knows that, even in palliative care, not everything can be taken care of; that a patient’s choices about how they die are very limited; and that, sometimes, their dying involves a wildness nobody can predict.
What Ray doesn’t know is that his own death will turn out to be everything he was hoping that he and his family would be spared.
'I've been there when lots of people have had terrible deaths. No matter what palliative care people say, the last 24 to 48 hours of somebody's life can be completely unexpected.'
Ray Godbold
Ray and Robyn Godbold's children: Tara, Ella and Rory — Photo: Andrew Denton
Ray at Tullamarine Airport — Photo: Robyn Godbold
Know more
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Article: 'Right to die: Dr Rodney Syme hands patient Ray Godbold life-ending medication', by Konrad Marshall – Age, 11 May 2015
- Multimedia feature: 'Into the darkness', by Konrad Marshall – Age, 13 November 2014
- Article: 'Dying with Dignity campaigner Ray Godbold farewelled by family', by Konrad Marshall – Age, 19 August 2015
- Article: 'The right to die at home', by Chris Fotinopoulos – Saturday Paper, 5 December 2015
- Transcript of testimony (PDF): 'Standing committee on legal and social issues: Inquiry into end-of-life choices', by Rory Godbold and Tara Szafraniec – Parliament of Victoria, 29 October 2015
In this episode
- Ray Godbold
- Robyn Godbold
- Ella Godbold
- Rory Godbold
- Tara Szafraniec (née Godbold)
Our theme music was composed by Zig Zag Lane for Zapruder's Other Films, and edited by Jon Tjhia. Music used in this episode includes 'Life Story' (Ólafur Arnalds and Nils Frahm), 'Longplay' (Luke Howard), 'Familiar' (Nils Frahm), 'We're All Leaving' (Arcade Fire), 'Abandon Window' (Jon Hopkins), 'Ain't No Grave Going to Hold Me Down' (Charlie Parr), 'untitled #1 (vaka)' (Sigur Rós) and 'Forty-Eight Angels' (Paul Kelly).
Your stories
If you're suffering, or someone you love has died badly – in a hospital, in palliative care, in a nursing home, or at home – add your voice and tell your story here.
Further information
Better Off Dead is produced by Thought Fox and the Wheeler Centre.
Executive producers Andrew Denton and Michael Williams. Producer and researcher Bronwen Reid. For Better Off Dead, the Wheeler Centre team includes Director Michael Williams, Head of Programming Emily Sexton, Head of Marketing and Communications Emily Harms, Projects Producer Amita Kirpalani and Digital Manager Jon Tjhia. Editing, sound design and mix on this episode is by Martin Peralta. Additional editing by Jess Fairfax.
Thank you
Thanks to Paul Kelly and Sony ATV for the use of his song ‘Forty Eight Angels’.
The series
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