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I break down what the research actually says about quitting pornography—and why most men are approaching it the wrong way. I explore the real drivers behind porn use, including shame, secrecy, and emotional regulation. You’ll learn why willpower isn’t enough and what actually creates lasting change. If you’ve struggled to quit or reduce porn, this episode will give you a practical and research-backed path forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The truth about porn and research 01:28 - Why secrecy is the real relationship problem 05:50 - How porn affects men vs women differently 09:07 - The shame cycle and moral incongruence 14:14 - Porn as emotional regulation 16:40 - The 10-minute awareness practice 17:45 - What actually works to quit porn 22:10 - The 5-step strategy to reduce or quit
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