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why women are saying NO to MEN
Category: Society & Culture
Duration: 00:37:30
Publish Date: 2025-08-25 09:01:01
Description:

mental health • feminism • community living • relationships

In today’s episode we’re diving headfirst into the big messy questions: what does it mean to build a life outside of men and outside of society’s “timeline”?

I break down the Bird’s Nest community (a women-only living space where companionship > coupledom), the rise of the 4B movement in South Korea (spoiler: no men, no marriage, no babies, no problem?), and how timeline grief sneaks up on us when we realize we’re not living the script we were handed.

We’ll talk money (aka financial independence = freedom), self-discovery, and why reinvention at literally ANY age is not only allowed, it’s necessary. Plus: I got featured in the Wall Street Journal (!!) so yeah, we’re celebrating that too.

takeaways:

  • Community living is changing the way women think about love + support
  • The 4B movement is feminism… turned up to 11
  • “Timeline grief” is real, but it doesn’t have to own you
  • Financial independence = the sexiest thing you can give yourself
  • Reinvention is always on the table


chapters:

00:00 Intro

04:34 Bird’s Nest Community

12:50 The Dynamics of Male Relationships

17:40 4B Movement: A Feminist Stance

25:10 Timeline Grief + Personal Reflection

32:48 Financial Independence + Future Planning

Drop me a comment if you’ve ever felt timeline grief, if you’d move into a Bird’s Nest house, or if you’re secretly (or not so secretly) 4B curious.



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